However, taking a deeper look at the sexual phenomenon and reconsidering the potentialities of this divine gift will go a long way in broadening and deepening our spiritual dimensions.
1) Sex has been created by God
Sex is not man-made., but it is inherited by each human being as a part of his/her instinct. It is a gift of nature. Thus, sexual intimacy is a reflection of the divine purpose.
Another notable fact is that the pleasure that comes while engaging in the sexual act suggests that sex was not created just for the purpose of procreation but also for the celebration of love and life itself.
The capacity of human love to create such ecstasy speaks a lot about the creator and that celebration and ecstasy is his way of life.
2) Sexual intimacy is also a divine expression of spirituality
The merging of two individuals as a part of sexual intimacy reflects the unity and merger of the creation with that of the creator. This expression of unity can be seen throughout the nature and in all living beings.
This unity connects all living beings with each other and connects them with the existence. There is a divine harmony and a deep inter-relationship. Sexual intimacy is therefore an expression of this underlying deep unity of creation.
3) Sexual intimacy gives rise to life
Life is among the most sacred and mysterious phenomenons. The connection of sex being a source of procreation gives it an immense sacredness. Therefore, all those who engage in the sexual act should enter into it and perform it with a sense of sacredness.
This can also be witnessed in the afterglow phase of sex when the physical unity is immediately followed by a deeper emotional and spiritual bond that forms among the participants. This is probably not replicated in any other way in our life. This bonding is also the essence of spirituality seen in nature.
4) Connection with the self is a pre-requisite for good sex
In order to maximize the emotional, spiritual and psychological effects of the bonding that arises during sexual intimacy, a deep connection with our self is required. Sex is not merely a biological act, but it can connect us to the divinity around and within us.
Individuals who are disconnected with their self and have a very negative view of themselves find it difficult to achieve deeper sexual bonding and affection with their partners.
In conclusion, we can see that sexual intimacy is among the many divine gifts given to us by the existence that can help us in a better understanding and appreciation of ourselves, as well as our relationship with God.
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